Your message about the military was not called for. To me you are a piece of shit, she lost her husband. I also notice you never came back to comment after you were called out. To be a coward is one thing but when you are still one on the internet where no one can touch you just confirms it. I hope you sleep well tonight know that there are people that are making this happen.
I've been in the Air Force for 23 years and it makes me sick knowing people like you exist.