I finally took some pics of my backup camera and mirror with LED display today. I used Ofer's harness and the mirror he recommended (got it on ebay). I used a Sony camera (model Sony XA-R800C). It works great. Thanks again, Ofer.
By the way, I know some people have said they are worried this mirror is bigger than the stock mirror. It might be a little bigger, but I think someone could have put it in my car when I wasn't looking and I might have never noticed. I notice no difference in my view out the windshield with this mirror.