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Old 09-08-2011, 10:29 AM   #1
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Question Brief Relationship Rant and Question for the Guys...

For a little backstory-- I was with this guy for five years. He liked to cheat on me on the internet (I'll give you more lurid details if you want them; I'm not talking porn here) and he hated my friends and family, talked crap to them/about them all the time, and just totally killed my self-esteem, so I got out of it and I'm a happy girl for the most part.

But tell me why, guys, it's necessary to contact your ex to tell them you're going to a concert with another girl but there is nothing to it and it's just friends? WTF? Why put me through all that hell, and then when I dump you, keep trying to sniff around saying you'll change (when you've said it 50 times before and you NEVER do)? Of course it's my fault partially for humoring him and not changing my cell number but really... Why does he BOTHER? Is it the challenge factor or am I just missing something?
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:31 AM   #2
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The same reason girls pull that stuff, they can and you allow them to effect you.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:31 AM   #3
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Boys are stupid and we hold grudges. (stereotyping here btw). He told you about the concert and the other girl ONLY because he knew it would push your buttons. Some guys are just dicks like that unfortunately.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:33 AM   #4
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Your first paragraph explains why the guy is a total tool, and your second paragraph asks why. Stop dealing with him, and enjoy that you don't have to
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:35 AM   #5
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Sounds like he's a tool by the way you describe him, that would probably explain the need to brag.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:39 AM   #6
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For a little backstory-- I was with this guy for five years. He liked to cheat on me on the internet (I'll give you more lurid details if you want them; I'm not talking porn here) and he hated my friends and family, talked crap to them/about them all the time, and just totally killed my self-esteem, so I got out of it and I'm a happy girl for the most part.

But tell me why, guys, it's necessary to contact your ex to tell them you're going to a concert with another girl but there is nothing to it? WTF? Why put me through all that hell, and then when I dump you, keep trying to sniff around saying you'll change (when you've said it 50 times before and you NEVER do)? Of course it's my fault partially for humoring him and not changing my cell number but really... Why does he BOTHER? Is it the challenge factor or am I just missing something?
Sounds like a real "Loser" - glad you dumped his sorry @ss. Get call display and just ignore him totally. If anything, if you hadn't already done so, tell him once and for all that he's history and you want him out of your life and then go through with it. No more contact whatsoever.

He's just trying to make you miserable and show off that he's better off. More of an insecurity issue if you ask me.

Move on, there are plenty of "nice" men out there for you.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:41 AM   #7
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Yup, he's a tool. You've heard of girls showing off their new boyfriends to their ex-boyfriends, this is more or less the same thing.

Don't let it get to you.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:41 AM   #8
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I will add that he asked me to go to the concert with him first. I dumped him 9 months ago. Since then he flew an ex girlfriend down here from Michigan to sleep with her, then sent her back up there and has barely spoken to her since. God, I get such winners
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:44 AM   #9
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I will add that he asked me to go to the concert with him first. I dumped him 9 months ago. Since then he flew an ex girlfriend down here from Michigan to sleep with her, then sent her back up there and has barely spoken to her since. God, I get such winners
I think you answered your own question right there. He was just looking for some, and thought you'd give it to him. Him calling you though was just him trying to make you jealous.
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Wow he's got to be pretty desperate if he's paying for his booty call to fly down to see him.
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:45 AM   #11
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Wow he's got to be pretty desperate if he's paying for his booty call to fly down to see him.
I told him that a prostitute locally would be much cheaper and better looking, she's a dog
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Old 09-08-2011, 10:47 AM   #12
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Agree with all the above, he is just a douche bag.

Sounds to me like he is now missing what he once had. Probrably enjoyed the 1st couple of months of being single, but now he is missing the hell out of you. He will never admit it, cause you know us guys have our pride and all!

Move on, find ya a dude that is willing to show you the respect you deserve. Believe it or not there are a few left out there!
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He's in to beastiality what a winner.
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