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GroundPilot · 08-29-2013, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

AS I'm reading everyone's responses I chuckle a little cause it seems noone, or very few has been in this situation before. With that said I can tell you I have and still am. My best friend is female and We have been friends more then the 13 years my wife and I have been together. We go out and do many things together with or without the wife. Wifey knew about my female best friend before we got married and was given a choice to either accept it or not. I wasnt changing myself or my friendships with people just to please or appease her and wouldnt ask her to do the same. My point is when two people get married you both accept eachother for who they are, not for who they will or will not become. If youre soon to be wifey cant accept everything about you and who you truly are and what you truly think and want then trust that she IS NOT the one for you. Believe me when I say those that truly accept who you are will always be the ones who stick around no matter what.

Probably theoretical, but would you feel the same if her "bestie" was a man? Most guys, me included, would have a problem with it.

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by GroundPilot

Probably theoretical, but would you feel the same if her "bestie" was a man? Most guys, me included, would have a problem with it.

Why the hell would I care? Doesnt matter who her friends are male , female or barney the %$#@ing dinosaur. Relationships are built on trust and communication. Without those there is no relationship. I'm naturally not a jealous person and never will be. If the grass is greener on the otherside then by all means go eat but just remember that grass is usually fertilized with BS and it would be her loss.

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

it shouldn't become that serious. it's about a bachelor party. the OP already stated that his fiancé is fine with his best friend. they all hang out together, and what not. it's about a bachelor party, that is meant for all men.

Is this written down on stone in some rulebook thats been passed down over generations? I believe not.

Diode Dynamics · 08-29-2013, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

might want to read the thread then. A girl has already posted.

Ahh yes, lol I missed that "we women" part of that post lol

Nick C.

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by jewel25

No offense DP. You make a great friend but I would go insane if I was married to you.

Yes Jewel you certainly would. Most people cant handle me cause frankly they cant handle the truth about themselves. People are afraid to get butt hurt or there feelings hurt. Im a no bullshit tell it like it is kind of person. Im not the one to ask if those jeans make youre ass look fat lol.

GroundPilot · 08-29-2013, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

Yes Jewel you certainly would. Most people cant handle me cause frankly they cant handle the truth about themselves. People are afraid to get butt hurt or there feelings hurt. Im a no bullshit tell it like it is kind of person. Im not the one to ask if those jeans make youre ass look fat lol.

Ahhh...a jerk cloaked in "telling it like it is".

PoorMansCamaro · 08-29-2013, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

Is this written down on stone in some rulebook thats been passed down over generations? I believe not.

Well the whole premise of a bachelor party is for the guys to throw a party for the soon to be husband. If it were meant to be mixed gender, it's no longer a bachelor party, just a party...

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by GroundPilot

Ahhh...a jerk cloaked in "telling it like it is".

I'm a jerk? you dont even know me so kiss my ass

jewel25 · 08-29-2013, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

I'm a jerk? you dont even know me so kiss my ass

But you are a jerk

PoorMansCamaro · 08-29-2013, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

I'm a jerk? you dont even know me so kiss my ass

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

Well the whole premise of a bachelor party is for the guys to throw a party for the soon to be husband. If it were meant to be mixed gender, it's no longer a bachelor party, just a party...

Very true. Welcome to 2013. The typical what would be considered norm Bachelor/Bachelorette parties are almost a thing of the past anymore like alot of things. Been to many over the past few years and the majority were coed, even at a strip club destination. Was surely different.

PIPE · 08-29-2013, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by jewel25

But you are a jerk

and youre a poser

PoorMansCamaro · 08-29-2013, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by PIPE

Very true. Welcome to 2013. The typical what would be considered norm Bachelor/Bachelorette parties are almost a thing of the past anymore like alot of things. Been to many over the past few years and the majority were coed, even at a strip club destination. Was surely different.

yeah, I guess a lot can change from 2006 to 2013. lol I guess i'm more traditional. i'll have a true bachelor party, and then a pre wedding party

45thCamaro · 08-29-2013, 09:06 AM

I understand where your wife's mind is, but your friend came first. If she was an ex gf or fling then Def no. Why not talk to your friend, explain the Situation and see if main you can plan something seperate for your friend and you to do (not bed related lol). Baseball game, dinner, bar crawl etc. and make sure you run it past your future leash handler. Make it a point to explain how important she is to you, and that if you were going to hook up, you would have already, it wouldn't take a bachelor party to do so.

08-29-2013, 09:06 AM	#56
45thCamaro Drives: 2012 Camaro 45th Anniversary RS Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: New York Posts: 2,418	I understand where your wife's mind is, but your friend came first. If she was an ex gf or fling then Def no. Why not talk to your friend, explain the Situation and see if main you can plan something seperate for your friend and you to do (not bed related lol). Baseball game, dinner, bar crawl etc. and make sure you run it past your future leash handler. Make it a point to explain how important she is to you, and that if you were going to hook up, you would have already, it wouldn't take a bachelor party to do so.