10-01-2009, 09:15 AM | #15 |
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maybe you could offer to pay half but i don't think you should be concerning yourself about what money your mom has because you really don't know her finances even though you think you do. in the adult world, the money you are saying she recieved really only goes so far...she could be saving something for your college education so you dont come out with a ton of loans. but dont act like she owes it to you because in reality she doesn't.
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10-01-2009, 09:25 AM | #16 |
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Just because she has money doesn't mean she has to buy you what you want. Don't mean to be harsh but if my daughter came to me and said something like that you could be assured that you wouldn't get a dime of it.
I have a daughter and she isn't old enough to drive yet but when she is she'll be getting a dependable piece of junk for her first car. Very few teens are responsible enough to handle a new and/or fast car regardless of what they may think. When I was a teen I knew I was responsible and could handle any car but, looking back, I now know that I didn't know crap and I'm lucky as hell to be alive today. My first car was a 78 Honda Civic with a whopping 80 horsepower. Any more than that and I would have killed myself. Just get a car to get you from point A to point B and deal with it for now. When you are able to afford it yourself then you can get what type of car you want. |
10-01-2009, 09:29 AM | #17 |
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10-01-2009, 09:31 AM | #18 | |
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If you do not have a job, who is going to pay the gas and insurance? Even if you have money saved up, if there's no income coming in, it won't last forever. My daughter is 17 and talked about wanting a car since she was 14. My husband and I told her if she wants a car, she is going to have to get a job. Whatever she saves towards the car, we told her we would match. When she turned 15, she got a job and saved, saved, saved. When she got her license, she had saved enough to pay $4200 for half her 03 Mustang, so we matched it. She takes better care of her car than most people I know and pays for her own gas and half her insurance, still works at the same job and does well in school. I would suggest attempting to show your mother you are willing to work for what you want and maybe she will change her tune about helping you out. But remember, having a license and a car as a teen is not a right, it's a priveledge. |
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10-01-2009, 09:44 AM | #19 | |
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with that said, you made a few points. its HER money, not yours. she did work before and has had medical issues to deal with not to mention raising you herself without the help of your father.(my condolances for you and your mother on the loss.) she has had to deal with a lot in her life as well as you have. please have compassion for her and not distain. she is bettering both of your lives and you are nearing a place in life you can help her out. the amount of money she has may sound like a lot, but it doesnt go that far. please help her and lose the deserving attitude. it will help you sooner than you think. also stop arueing with her rearead all the responses again and again until you understand them.
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10-01-2009, 09:47 AM | #20 |
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I have to agree with alot of the other parents here, I have two tean daughters, the oldest just kills me. She took her drivers ED, passed it, and then didn't take the responsibility to get the form from the school to get the permit at 15, even after the multiple reminders we gave her.
Now she is 17 1/2 and thinks we should just go ahead and get her a car when she turns 18 in six months. I, like most of the parents here did not have help in getting my first car, I ended up saving $500 at age 18 in 1987 and ended up getting a 1975 Buick Lesabre, it was a boat and it had a huge dent in one of the rear fenders, but because I did this on my own my parents made sure I had new tires ect., get where I am going now. Good Luck... |
10-01-2009, 11:00 AM | #21 | |
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It's her money, you have NO right to tell her that she spent it on things you didn't need. Sorry if I've been harsh with my comments, sorry you were not included for any inheritences. Time to suck it up big guy, if you want something, go out and figure a way to get it on your own. Your Mom owes you nothing, she already provides a home for you. I am truely sorry for the loss of your Dad.
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10-01-2009, 11:47 AM | #22 |
I may be somewhat different than most here. I worked my butt off on my uncle’s farm to get money to buy my first car when I was 15. It was a 68 Camaro. I received no help what so ever from my parents…nothing. Now I help my kids as much as I can. I don’t want them driving Junkers and ending up broken down on the side of the road. We gave my son $1,000 for a down payment on his first car, a very nice 96 Pathfinder. It was an $8,000 vehicle. He made most payments and insurance payments. My next daughter got our already paid for 98 Camry when we bought a new Rav 4 for the wife. We pay the insurance to this day. She works and is going to nursing school. Our last daughter is 17 and has a part time job and we got her a 2006 Cobalt for $8,000 and she gives us $100 per month to help on the payments. I take the $100 and put it away for her. I’ll surprise her with the money when she needs something she can’t afford. We pay the insurance. We help our kids more than most because I don’t want them to struggle like I did. Some will say the struggle helps them learn the value of a dollar. I agree to a point. My kids have never been in trouble and they treat their vehicles with respect and know if the grades are down or if there is any trouble, the gifts will end. They help around the house and always ask if there is anything they can do to help out.
You should never expect your Mom to give you money she obviously earned by being a good daughter and helping your Grandfather when he needed help. If she felt like the house needed some upgrades, that’s her prerogative. It’s up to you to help her see your grades are good, you help around the house and are keeping your nose clean. If she sees this, she may soften up on you and give a little. Just remember, your Mom is only 59 and can’t work. Retirement won’t bring in that much money. Maybe she looked at her budget and feels she needs the rest of the money to live on. I know how you kids are, you want something and you want it now. Just remember that $70,000 really isn’t that much when you think about your Mom and her expenses for the rest of her life. Be the best kid you can, help her every chance you get, and for God’s sake get good grades. She’ll see these good things and will want to help you.
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10-01-2009, 12:48 PM | #24 |
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im 19 my gradparents helped with half of mine mines an 01 and it is GREAT no problems so far i got mine for 3200 id say find other ppl maybe your grandparents buses are no option either for college its a hassle trust me my college is about 25 miles away from home . im still in the process of paying back month by month due to i do work part time try to do the same see if it works out my parents well my dad which is the guy with money didint even bother, and my mom tried but our eceonomic stuation is not all that great youll find it cheaper wait a bit .
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