Fiancé didn't tell me she hit a post with my car...

[mat300z]

And that is why my wife will never drive my car! EVER!

[Mr.Jgunn65]

I agree with Angie 7... How in the hell u are going to hit something in the man's car and not tell anyone?

[MEDISIN]

Originally Posted by jwoair23

As much as everyone will joke around, just remember whats more important, a car or your fiance! My fiance rear ended someone while driving my camaro, I used the opportunity to buy a new SS bumper and upgrade the front end. I see you have an RS, maybe you should consider the same, although your damage isn't nearly as bad as mine was!

So she was cheating on you IN your Camaro AND you still married her!?

[Mr.Jgunn65]

Married or single, it doesn't matter...if you allow your significant other to F*&^! up your car, thene your truley are p$%@y whipped. Not only its expensive but stupid.

[BlackinBlack]

Man so many harsh remarks.

First the damage looks minor. Paint and move on. Repaint of the front fascia should be under $500.00 to do right. Might even be able to blend but with metallic paint a full cover respray will most likely be required to make it right. (A good painter will be able to make that determination.)

Your fiance not telling you would be a bigger concern to me.

I would bet she did not tell you because she knows how much you love your car. I hope you did not freak on her and if you did you should tell her that you over reacted.

If this person is the person you want to be with forever you want them to feel like they can tell you anything. If she feels that you will freak every time she gives you bad news your marriage could have some seriously bad secrets. Ones that could end it.

So just talk to her about it and make sure she knows it is alright to f@#K up as long as she tells you. We all make mistakes but as a married couple secrets are not acceptable.

BTW This is coming from a guy that has been married 13 years and had a similar thing happen.

[motorhead]

It doesn't matter why she didn't tell him. The fact is that she didn't. If She's afraid to tell him over small things like a fender bender(although not small to me, I would have gone ape shit) then what about things like running up huge credit card debit without telling him or something worse. Trust is key in marriage and this simple act would throw up a flag to me. If she really loved and trusted the OP then she would have taken her lumps and owned up to what she did. Also She should be paying to fix the car not the OP.

[bigssc]

id flip out

[11VicConSSMan]

Sweet!!!! Upgrade and forget it.... She will spend the rest of your life making you happy... I would just tell her "no matter what has happen you can always come to me" Has worked for me for almost 19 years now...

Where in Cali are you locate????

[TastyBake]

Once its fixed and you see it look like new, you'll forget this ever happened.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by richard200593

i went to 3 places around town to get estimates today... definately not a "small" fix like i was hoping, I live in the bay area so obviously anywhere I go Im going to be bent over, but the CHEAPEST place I found was maaco (which ive never been a big fan of) who says they will leave the bumper on, spray it and blend it, and it will be around 550-600. the other two places wanted between 950-1200 for removal and repaint.... I wish I could just live with the scratch but its just too noticiable, this is going to hurt my mod money for a few months.

might as well get the zl1 front bumper. lol

[htoniv]

The her not telling you part is the bigger issue, though there could have been reasons why (she forgot, like she said she didnt think it was anything big enough to even be noticeable, etc) but regardless i personally believe you shouldn't be mad. , its fixable, so why make a big issue out of it. My girlfriend last year scrapped my RS rims leaving visible marks. She jumped out and ran into the back seat when it happened lol, it was a really funny moment. , it happens, put it behind you.

[Jose]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO leave her!!!, sue her!!!, make her pay!!! NOT THE CAMARO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[2010SLVRBULIT]

so long as she's hot, I wouldn't fret...

[rez333]

Originally Posted by two_wheel_mayhem

Hey I've been through crap like this myself. Most women forget when they screw up your car. It's the ones that try to lie and deny it that you send packing. If they own up to it there is no cause for alarm.

No. It's not that she forgot about it, she admitted "I thought it was not a big deal" - I think that's a lie. If it wasn't such a big deal, why not confess?