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Old 04-13-2012, 04:17 PM   #1
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How to tell someone u dont want them around

So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?
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Old 04-13-2012, 04:30 PM   #2
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Introduce her to a guy you don't like.

She seems like pretty much a stalker type, so she will drop you as a crutch and latch on to the new victim.

Not the prettiest solution, but effective...
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So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?
Your next car show is right smack in the middle of Englewood in Chicago, right?
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Old 04-13-2012, 06:18 PM   #4
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Try extending your clenching and unclenching hands toward her throat while contorting your face in homicidal fury and telling her between ragged breaths that you are overcome with a bloodlust that only the death of a fresh victim can satisfy.

If that don't work as is, go ahead and follow through on your threat. Lol.
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Old 04-13-2012, 06:20 PM   #5
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Block her on FB, problem solved.
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Old 04-13-2012, 06:22 PM   #6
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Block her on FB, problem solved.
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Old 04-13-2012, 06:35 PM   #7
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+2 okay 3 actually.
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Old 04-13-2012, 06:55 PM   #8
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Lol good answers!! How do I block my posts from her? Ive defriended her b4 & then she harasses my elderly parents until I befriend her again. Crazy I tell you!
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Try extending your clenching and unclenching hands toward her throat while contorting your face in homicidal fury and telling her between ragged breaths that you are overcome with a bloodlust that only the death of a fresh victim can satisfy.

If that don't work as is, go ahead and follow through on your threat. Lol.
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Old 04-13-2012, 07:03 PM   #10
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Tell her she is f'ing crazy and very annoying and un friend her.
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Old 04-13-2012, 07:46 PM   #11
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Tell her she is f'ing crazy and very annoying and un friend her.
I have more then once and no kidding she calls, emails, & facebook harrasses my elderly parents. Its just easier to leave her on my fb page but I dont wanna hang out with her. Car shows are MY time to enjoy life.
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I have more then once and no kidding she calls, emails, & facebook harrasses my elderly parents. Its just easier to leave her on my fb page but I dont wanna hang out with her. Car shows are MY time to enjoy life.
If you have call forwarding, forward her number to dial a prayer, time and temperature or something else. Real harassing, then the cops need to get involved.
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Create a new FB account, add a few friends, and her to it and occassionally post to it so she thinks its the real one.
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I have been here before. I have an undercover FB page now and a new cell. (Psycho X and her freinds)
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If you have call forwarding, forward her number to dial a prayer, time and temperature or something else. Real harassing, then the cops need to get involved.
I did something like that once to someone. Why is irrelevant.

The person had a pager.

Back in the day, people used modems. I had a program called Procomm Plus that you used to connect to other modems and it would emulate various terminals. The cool thing was you could program it to do stuff.

I set it up to dial the pager number every minute, and put in a random number. This went on for about a week before he was forced to change the number.
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Old 04-13-2012, 08:28 PM   #16
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you just told her ,she's reading this thread :(
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Old 04-13-2012, 08:32 PM   #17
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So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?

Gotta love the old self invite. Good luck.
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Lol good answers!! How do I block my posts from her? Ive defriended her b4 & then she harasses my elderly parents until I befriend her again. Crazy I tell you!
On FB, go into your Privacy Settings. In the middle of the page you'll see where it says Control Your Default Privacy and underneath it you'll see Public, Friends, and Custom. Click Custom. You'll get a little pop up and near the bottom it says Hide This From. Just type in her name.
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:09 PM   #19
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Gotta love the old self invite. Good luck.
I know right? She invited me to lunch one time and the day we were suppose to go she asked if I would pay for her? Uh no Im a single mom of 2, I dont have money for you!
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On FB, go into your Privacy Settings. In the middle of the page you'll see where it says Control Your Default Privacy and underneath it you'll see Public, Friends, and Custom. Click Custom. You'll get a little pop up and near the bottom it says Hide This From. Just type in her name.
Thx! She posted directly to my wall just a bit ago asking about the next show...guess Ill just have to be a B.
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Just tell her the friendship isn't mutually beneficial. I don't think we should be friends any longer.

I've had to do this once before. I was just straight up and made a clean break. Now I don't have to deal with her anymore.
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If you knew her when she was on her meds and things were cool, tell her you can only hang if she stays on her meds. Otherwise, adios.

Either way you won't have to deal with crazy.
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So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?
If you're sure she's Bi-polar, be honest. Tell her how you feel. The last thing you want to do is lead her on. Just make sure, when you tell her, you're in a position where you can physically get away from her QUICKLY.
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No shes seriously bipolar and OCD disorder. She thinks shes fine but you nvr know how she is going to react.
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doesn't sound like a friend to me :(
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