[Banshee]

Originally Posted by Big Brunsy

If your x-wifes boyfriend is a police officer, and pulls you over for bullshit reasons (crowding the yellow line) can that be considered harassment? or would it hafta happen several times b4 one can say anything?

There is more to this story than what is posted....JMO.

To answer your question in a roundabout way...Document dates and EXACT times. Take a video camera with you wherever you go. Loitering is enforcable if posted by signage or without if certain criteria is met.

There is more to this than is not being divulged. Yes, some cops are pricks, but without hearing what your ex and her new cop boyfriend have to say, I can only say there is more to this.

On its face, the stop and the frequent contact is a cause for concern and can be address VIA a formal complaint. I would make a formal complaint to his immediate supervisor first and see where that goes. After that, if it continues, go to the Chief of Police. If that does not work, go to the State Police as they oversee any municipal employee wrongdoing.

First, what does your driving record look like? any criminal scrapes? You can correlate no tickets or contacts in 5 years as a mean average to 3 contacts from your ex cop BF as circumstantial and very good grounds as harassment.