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I let my husband drive it on occasion, and no one else. I worry when he's gone and he knows it so he rarely asks. He flat asked me one day as he was driving and I was riding (looking for that same brake pedal that FastintheDesert was looking for) "Do I make you nervous or something?" I said "Yes, your driving DOES make me nervous because you spend TOO much time gazing off into the distance along the roadside looking for deer, tree's that need cut down, what kind of dead cars are hidden in trees, and so forth while you should be watching the road!!!" He had the audacity to look hurt, and I told him "YOU ASKED... was I supposed to lie?

Who does not get to drive my car? In particular, Jan, the neighbor. She asked if she could just back it out of my carport and pull it back in... just to see how it "feels". HUGE NO. Reminded her that I loaned her my pickup a couple of years back, when she was moving from the house across the road to the house next door. She backed out of my carport and turned the wheel too soon and bashed in my front fender.
Did she REALLY think I'd let her try that again in my new car?