my aunt in law backed into my parked car and kept going even after she made contact

(She claimed %100 percent as her fault so although I was upset I wasnt to mad). So around labor day weekend I got my passenger door panel, fender and mirror replaced. My quarter panel was also repainted. This was all done by a reputable body shop and they told me that I can not wash or wax the car for at least sixty days. Actually, when I came to pick up the car they said they did just do a quick wash. Now, after not washing the car and some rain spots and dust are on the car I noticed swirl marks on the new body pieces. I would think that the paint and clearcoat would have cured after 3 week so can I just wash, polish, wax? I recently purchases adams machine polishing kit so I am excited to use it.