thank you!
I ran down and checked it out and the heated seat controls are located on the knob for the heating/cooling on the head unit, I know you can get aftermarket heated seats, but I would rather spend a little more and get the factory appearance, so I went ahead and bought the head unit with the factory controls off of ebay, going to pull it apart when it gets here and see if I can swap the controls over onto mine, if not I will try swapping the units out. it is fun to try to figure these things out and in the end my wife's back will thank me