That's a good idea! Marking the gift male/female/both. We just did our (PNWCC) party tonight. It was hilarious. We did the kind of gift exchange where people get the option to "steal" a gift. Guys (yeah, me) were getting pretty soaps, and women were getting tools (nothin' wrong with that!) There is a Christmas (I think it's a snowman) toilet seat cover that's been the butt of jokes since it was given in last years exchange. This year it was inflicted upon another unsuspecting victim. Everyone is expecting we'll be seeing it again at next year's party!
...oh, and that "butt of jokes" remark was
not intended to be a pun!