If these are all "worries" you have then I'd say start with a V6.
1. Like said if you want an SS, don't worry about MPG

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2. Go test drive an SS, everyone's threshold for power is different. It was easy for me because I've been around muscle cars my whole life even though this is the first I bought.
3. Inspect, inspect, inspect. Don't buy a Camaro because you get an amazing deal, buy one that you want to own.
4. Do you have college loans, credit cards, anything? Just because you never bought a car or house or large item, doesn't mean you don't have credit. I bought my Camaro at the beginning of this year when I was 22 (now 23), all I had under my belt was paying back a little bit of my college loans and a credit card I buy gas and other things with. Got 1.9% financing but granted I put down a little more than half at $20k but I bought brand new.