[2Carats]

Where do I begin...

Dealmakers or dealbreakers. You will have to decide what the dealbreakers are. If you believe this male friend is going to be such a distraction to your relationship, and you wont stand for it, then that's a dealbreaker. If you can live with the situation and it does not bother you today, and you accept, it as a dealmaker, then this same issue is going to be around for years to come.

Boundries. The way she is now is the way she's going to be. Dont think you can change anybody when going into a relationship. You will have to sit down, communicate what you both expect from the relationship and what the boundries are. The key is to get on the same page.
If she is going to have male friends, I suggest they become your friends too. Just food for thought, a shoulder to cry on is a di__ to ride...

If you feel she is the one for you, then go for it, and the very best of luck to you. But dont ignore your gut feeling. There are some things you will never find out and no matter what you think, there are some things you dont want to know. Dont go looking for trouble by snooping in her facebook etc, cause you more than likely will find it, and it may not turn out to be what you thought it was. If you are going to trust her... then trust her.


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