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Originally Posted by Ray_Cam_SS
How strange and moronic how most of the MEN in this thread are ragging on men! One woman makes a post how she was married to a dead beat so now all the men here are siding with the woman! I suppose most of the guys here are married, and if god forbid they side with men, their wife, looking over their shoulder might cut them off, or on the couch for some days?
Wow! 
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He was not a dead beat, he was a great husband and father and extremely generous but he could not overcome his addictions. I wish he had beat it and could see how amazing his girls are, he was a great guy!
I sure would love to hear your ex's side of the story.
By the way, I am an executive manager, pulling in a higher than average income. I am remarried and we share household expenses, but keep our money separate so we have no financial issues. I also brought more into the relationship financially, so if god forbid we did ever divorce, I'd be the one leaving worse than I came in. my husband supports his 4 kids in every way possible, the kids are with us a week on, week off. He splits the financial responsibilty with his ex, but is involved in every aspect of their lives.
We raise all the kids together and they are well balanced, doing well in school and give us no problems, not partying, drinking or doing drugs. soooooo, his ex didn't rake him over the coals, they both worked hard to rebuild their lives.
Not every divorce is bitterness and full of hatred, mine certainly wasn't.
So stupid to act or think that women are out for what they can get from men.