I thought I would upload a "tweaked" relay schematic. I really didn't change much, but I just added a couple of notes that I got from reviewing this entire thread. I hope this helps out people. I just ordered the parts via Digi-key, so just waiting for them to come in. Once they do, then I'll hope I can solder them all together as the others have and come out with a working unit.
I'll then post up a Youtube video of my success.