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FutureBumbleBee · 07-23-2009, 06:54 PM

She's pretty pregnant, like 7 months, and desperately needs money or some kind of support. Does anyone have any ideas? She's a sweet girl and a dear friend I don't want to see her go broke with a new baby and stuff. Maybe something she can do at home?

2010SLVRBULIT · 07-23-2009, 07:08 PM

marry her(if it's yours..).and even if it isn't..well..

patriotpa · 07-23-2009, 07:12 PM

The guy who helped make it should be helping. It's 1/2 his.

FutureBumbleBee · 07-23-2009, 07:14 PM

he can only do so much

Luny · 07-23-2009, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by FutureBumbleBee

he can only do so much

adoption, if she cant take good care of a baby as well as it should be she shouldve never had it but too late for that, i know adoption is a hard option and alot of ppl dont like it but in my eyes give it to someone who can actually care for the newborn

i guess her parents and his parents arent helping any?

FNKNSTN · 07-23-2009, 07:21 PM

Does she need her mom to sign a work permit so she can get a job because she's still in high school?

If not... she can hit the bricks like any other average joe.

Luny is right... Adoption is a good option. In California she can squeeze the kid out in her own bath tub, then drop it off at a hospital or a fire station.

FNKNSTN · 07-23-2009, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by 2010SLVRBULIT

marry her(if it's yours..).and even if it isn't..well..

That is a horrible suggestion... even if it is "his".

Hylton · 07-23-2009, 07:30 PM

How old is she and how old is the daddy?

LadyinBlue · 07-23-2009, 07:37 PM

FutureBumbleBee - if your friend has access to a computer direct her to:

http://clarkhoward.com/topics/workathome_help.html

This page contains an extensive listing of reputable companies with work-at-home options that she can explore.

Give her my best wishes and give yourself a hug for being a friend who cares :-)

FutureBumbleBee · 07-23-2009, 08:01 PM

they're in their mid 20s I think.

thanks for the link

DropTheGloves · 07-23-2009, 10:17 PM

Hate to say it, but they put themselves into this position. If you put one thing with another thats two, and if you are lucky/unlucky enough, pending how you look at it, you can have another thing in 9 months. They should have been responsible in the first place. Why didn't she try and get a job ealier? it's not like a college final, and wait till the last minute and then do something. Hope it all works out, but hope she grows up and recognizes what can happen without protection of some sort.

Sierra · 07-23-2009, 10:32 PM

If she is 7 months pregnant. No one will seriously think of her until after the baby is born. Of course there are gov programs for assist.

fazm · 07-23-2009, 10:34 PM

gotta ask since nobody else has, is she hot? (pre pregnancy of course)

and i agree with drop the gloves, they put themselves in this situation. if you cant afford it, dont do the deed

FutureBumbleBee · 07-23-2009, 10:56 PM

Ok I need to clarify some things here. We know it's not a good idea to have a kid you can't support. Remember, you're talking to me, her friend. Trying to make her feel bad for having a kid isn't going to do anything since she won't read this. All I'm asking is some suggestions and ideas for what she could do for money. If you know of some government programs in california too, that'd be great.

She had a job, they let her go because she was pregnant (she was a 90-day temp so it's legal). She also had a different job, which she can't do while pregnant.

07-23-2009, 06:54 PM	#1
FutureBumbleBee Drives: 83 Z28, white, slow and dying Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: California Posts: 135	My friend is pregnant and needs a job, please help She's pretty pregnant, like 7 months, and desperately needs money or some kind of support. Does anyone have any ideas? She's a sweet girl and a dear friend I don't want to see her go broke with a new baby and stuff. Maybe something she can do at home?

07-23-2009, 07:30 PM	#8
Hylton Drives: fanboys and ass kissers crazy. Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ottawa, Ontario Posts: 7,275	How old is she and how old is the daddy? __________________ "BBOMG - More than just a car show.... It's an experience!"

07-23-2009, 10:32 PM	#12
Sierra Drives: 2004 GMC Sierra SLT 4x4 Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Southern NJ Posts: 1,045	If she is 7 months pregnant. No one will seriously think of her until after the baby is born. Of course there are gov programs for assist. __________________ On the 8th day God created the Camaro and all is good.

07-23-2009, 07:08 PM	#2
2010SLVRBULIT Drives: G5(LLT) & C6(LS3) Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: MARS Posts: 7,524 View My Garage	marry her(if it's yours..).and even if it isn't..well..

07-23-2009, 07:12 PM	#3
patriotpa Account Suspended Drives: 02 Silverado, 09 Vue, 10 1SS Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Tired of apologizing when we should be kickin' butt! Posts: 1,962 View My Garage	The guy who helped make it should be helping. It's 1/2 his.

07-23-2009, 07:14 PM	#4
FutureBumbleBee Drives: 83 Z28, white, slow and dying Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: California Posts: 135	he can only do so much

07-23-2009, 07:21 PM	#6
FNKNSTN Banned Drives: A Black Car Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 800	Does she need her mom to sign a work permit so she can get a job because she's still in high school? If not... she can hit the bricks like any other average joe. Luny is right... Adoption is a good option. In California she can squeeze the kid out in her own bath tub, then drop it off at a hospital or a fire station.

07-23-2009, 07:37 PM	#9
LadyinBlue Drives: 260HP/242TQ Join Date: May 2009 Location: Dayton, Ohio Posts: 707	FutureBumbleBee - if your friend has access to a computer direct her to: http://clarkhoward.com/topics/workathome_help.html This page contains an extensive listing of reputable companies with work-at-home options that she can explore. Give her my best wishes and give yourself a hug for being a friend who cares :-)

07-23-2009, 08:01 PM	#10
FutureBumbleBee Drives: 83 Z28, white, slow and dying Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: California Posts: 135	they're in their mid 20s I think. thanks for the link

07-23-2009, 10:17 PM	#11
DropTheGloves Account Suspended Drives: 2009 TT 335/2009 GSX-R 1000/ECT.. Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Tampa, Florida Posts: 772	Hate to say it, but they put themselves into this position. If you put one thing with another thats two, and if you are lucky/unlucky enough, pending how you look at it, you can have another thing in 9 months. They should have been responsible in the first place. Why didn't she try and get a job ealier? it's not like a college final, and wait till the last minute and then do something. Hope it all works out, but hope she grows up and recognizes what can happen without protection of some sort.

07-23-2009, 10:34 PM	#13
fazm Drives: ex-500hp v6 mustang Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: arizona Posts: 605	gotta ask since nobody else has, is she hot? (pre pregnancy of course) and i agree with drop the gloves, they put themselves in this situation. if you cant afford it, dont do the deed

07-23-2009, 10:56 PM	#14
FutureBumbleBee Drives: 83 Z28, white, slow and dying Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: California Posts: 135	Ok I need to clarify some things here. We know it's not a good idea to have a kid you can't support. Remember, you're talking to me, her friend. Trying to make her feel bad for having a kid isn't going to do anything since she won't read this. All I'm asking is some suggestions and ideas for what she could do for money. If you know of some government programs in california too, that'd be great. She had a job, they let her go because she was pregnant (she was a 90-day temp so it's legal). She also had a different job, which she can't do while pregnant.