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PQ · 08-24-2009, 05:45 PM

Oh great Scott, first you get a rabbit, Rebecca sees it and gets one and now you're getting rid of yours.

Hey Steph, Good choice on the dog over the rabbit. She's really dog. Awesome.

mamaro · 08-24-2009, 06:28 PM

They have to boundaries and know what they are. They need to know what you expect from them, and know the consequences of failing to meet those expectations or breaching the boundaries. You have to follow through on the consequences, or they mean nothing. All 3 of my girls hated me when they were teenagers. My youngest told me she hated me, and that really hurt. But I had to stand my ground. I gave them love, and hugged them when they didn't want to be hugged, and I punished them when it hurt me to punish them. They have all turned out to be responsible adults, and have the deepest love and respect for me. "I love you" are the last words in every conversation we have, and they are the first to say it. They made mistakes in their lives, and the hardest thing I had to do was refrain from rescuing them. I cried many lonely tears over that, but it was all worth it.

If you don't do it now, it will be much more painful for you later on.

*Mindz* · 08-24-2009, 07:13 PM

Maltese are great dogs. Enjoy it.

Indpowr · 08-24-2009, 07:13 PM

Very cute...puppies make everyone smile.

drivingincamaro · 08-24-2009, 07:19 PM

did she smell like cigarette smoke or Pot smoke, (i dont do it but i have been around people who do it, not when they are doing it after they got high)

theirs a distinct smell

I hope you can get your daughter away from those kids

nova · 08-24-2009, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott@Bjorn3D

Anybody want a rabbit, she agreed the rabbit could go.

Rabbit makes a fine meal you know

FenwickHockey65 · 08-24-2009, 07:23 PM

Aww puppy.

jayzwife · 08-24-2009, 09:01 PM

Scott, that was the most beautiful picture I have seen in days. Thanks for posting it, that cheered up day right up!

ssrsheaven · 08-24-2009, 09:05 PM

Zabo · 08-24-2009, 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FenwickHockey65

Aww puppy.

..Only a matter of time from you, Fen.

Cute Maltese Scott. Steph's looking better than expected. She's definitely the trooper that's for sure.

Jamie Mac · 08-24-2009, 10:52 PM

Had a gym teacher on highschool over 20 years ago that was an idiot but said one thing that has always stuck to me. "When it's time to punish your kids, punish them as hard as you can and when it's time to love them love them as hard as you can"

respect is earned · 08-24-2009, 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SSOOCH

You're too late. You needed to do what I did with my two Daughters. I never potty trained them! That's right. I never have to worry about them being out too late. When a guy takes them out and they **** their pants in his car. He's bringing them back early!!

dude, this is a totally incalled for post in a completly serious thread.... YOUR THE MAN

thought that was really fun

Collegekid19 · 08-25-2009, 01:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SSOOCH

You're too late. You needed to do what I did with my two Daughters. I never potty trained them! That's right. I never have to worry about them being out too late. When a guy takes them out and they **** their pants in his car. He's bringing them back early!!

Wow...i am 19 years old and i understand that this something that a decent person would not joke about. I must say I am sorely disappointed in the lack of maturity and they say that my generation is bad. Please have more concideration for others not just yourself.

jayson71 · 08-25-2009, 01:19 AM

First, It is never too late.
Second, Love her and let her know you do. If this means that you have to upset her by setting rules and enforcing them then so be it.
Third, You may be the “Step” father by law but you sure sound like a daddy to me.The fact that you are looking for help demonstrates a loving father who wants what is best for his babies.
Fourth, I see by your signature that you are a faithful man, as such, you must be the spiritual leader of the house. If you are not doing so already, get all of your family to church every week. Surrounding her with loving people will help.
Lastly, evil will attack when ever it can, it may be as simple as a chipped windshield pushing you away from your faith, a daughter that tests your patience, and yes even inappropriate comments posted either in jest or with malice but it is there none the less.
Lean on your father, His grace is sufficient.

I and my family pray for you everyday God Bless.

08-24-2009, 05:45 PM	#1289
PQ Booooosted. Drives: 2010 Supercharged SS Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Mobile, AL Posts: 36,717 View My Garage	Oh great Scott, first you get a rabbit, Rebecca sees it and gets one and now you're getting rid of yours. Hey Steph, Good choice on the dog over the rabbit. She's really dog. Awesome. __________________

08-24-2009, 06:28 PM	#1290
mamaro Drives: '10 IOM 2LT/RS M6 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Cache Oklahoma Posts: 401 View My Garage	BOUNDARIES and CONSEQUENCES They have to boundaries and know what they are. They need to know what you expect from them, and know the consequences of failing to meet those expectations or breaching the boundaries. You have to follow through on the consequences, or they mean nothing. All 3 of my girls hated me when they were teenagers. My youngest told me she hated me, and that really hurt. But I had to stand my ground. I gave them love, and hugged them when they didn't want to be hugged, and I punished them when it hurt me to punish them. They have all turned out to be responsible adults, and have the deepest love and respect for me. "I love you" are the last words in every conversation we have, and they are the first to say it. They made mistakes in their lives, and the hardest thing I had to do was refrain from rescuing them. I cried many lonely tears over that, but it was all worth it. If you don't do it now, it will be much more painful for you later on.

08-24-2009, 07:13 PM	#1291
Mindz E.B.A.H. Drives: you wild... Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: In the happy padded room wearing a jacket that makes me hug myself... Posts: 18,420	Maltese are great dogs. Enjoy it. __________________ Blue Rush, 2010 SS [Car of the Week 3/22/2010] Traded in on...ZLZBUBB, 2013 ZL1

08-24-2009, 07:19 PM	#1293
drivingincamaro Drives: 95 civic Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Chicago Illinois Posts: 5,796	did she smell like cigarette smoke or Pot smoke, (i dont do it but i have been around people who do it, not when they are doing it after they got high) theirs a distinct smell I hope you can get your daughter away from those kids __________________ Last edited by drivingincamaro; 08-24-2009 at 10:43 PM.

08-24-2009, 07:23 PM	#1295
FenwickHockey65 General Motors Aficionado Drives: 2023 GMC Canyon, 2023 Expedition Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 37,375 View My Garage	Aww puppy. __________________ 2023 GMC Canyon Elevation 2023 Ford Expedition SSV (State-Issued)

08-24-2009, 07:13 PM	#1292
Indpowr Account Suspended Drives: Corvette C6 Join Date: May 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 6,959 View My Garage	Very cute...puppies make everyone smile.

08-24-2009, 09:01 PM	#1296
jayzwife Drives: 2010 VR SS/RS Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NorCal Posts: 94 View My Garage	Scott, that was the most beautiful picture I have seen in days. Thanks for posting it, that cheered up day right up!

08-24-2009, 09:05 PM	#1297
ssrsheaven Drives: 92 firebird,2010 camaro Join Date: May 2009 Location: Indianapolis,In Posts: 362 View My Garage

08-24-2009, 10:52 PM	#1299
Jamie Mac NCM-WINR Drives: 2010 SS/RS IOM 2014 2LT Stingray Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 2,324	Had a gym teacher on highschool over 20 years ago that was an idiot but said one thing that has always stuck to me. "When it's time to punish your kids, punish them as hard as you can and when it's time to love them love them as hard as you can" __________________ also drives a heavily modified Jeep Wrangler. It has LED headlights and wheel weights blacked out with Plasti Dip. It's Baller.

08-25-2009, 01:19 AM	#1302
jayson71 Drives: 2010 Victory Red Camaro Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Sacramento California Posts: 283 View My Garage	First, It is never too late. Second, Love her and let her know you do. If this means that you have to upset her by setting rules and enforcing them then so be it. Third, You may be the “Step” father by law but you sure sound like a daddy to me.The fact that you are looking for help demonstrates a loving father who wants what is best for his babies. Fourth, I see by your signature that you are a faithful man, as such, you must be the spiritual leader of the house. If you are not doing so already, get all of your family to church every week. Surrounding her with loving people will help. Lastly, evil will attack when ever it can, it may be as simple as a chipped windshield pushing you away from your faith, a daughter that tests your patience, and yes even inappropriate comments posted either in jest or with malice but it is there none the less. Lean on your father, His grace is sufficient. I and my family pray for you everyday God Bless.