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G.E. · 10-21-2009, 11:15 PM

Ok, this girl and I are good friends and went out for a while and her stepdad is a real douche. He is also the janitor at our school... Anyway he has always made little threats to her about me... but never directly to me. The most recent threat, I guess that is what this is called, is when she was telling him about my car. He said that if he ever caught her in it that he would smash the window, pull her out and then beat me... Now to me this is pretty disturbing. My question is, can anything be done about this..

additional info: Past threats are kind of like if i ever see him touch you i will brake his (my) hand... Like I said he has never directly threatened me but he is always telling her little things that he'd do to me.

brooks35 · 10-21-2009, 11:23 PM

In Mi. there is nothing that will be done for verbal threats, unless there is a weapon involved, which gives the immediate means to carry out the threat. Such as being armed and stating "I'm gonna shoot you." I don't know about Texas. In Mi. you would be told to seek a personal protection order if you felt threatened, but then again I am a father also and hopefully you are not a valid reason for the threats that are happening.(Such as you being a piece of S**T)

It's the old saying....two sides to every story.

Steelheart · 10-21-2009, 11:23 PM

Probably should consult your local law enforcement on this

songsj · 10-21-2009, 11:27 PM

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Probably should consult your local law enforcement on this

Yes, but dude, there is something wrong with this girl for even repeating this stuff to you, unless she thinks he may really do something. Then again she may like the attention. If that's the case dump her and look for a tad more mature woman.

1320junkie · 10-21-2009, 11:27 PM

My daughter went on her first date last week...I threatened the boy etc...I let it be known dont mess with my daughter

coolman · 10-21-2009, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by G.E.

Ok, this girl and I are good friends and went out for a while and her stepdad is a real douche. He is also the janitor at our school... Anyway he has always made little threats to her about me... but never directly to me. The most recent threat, I guess that is what this is called, is when she was telling him about my car. He said that if he ever caught her in it that he would smash the window, pull her out and then beat me... Now to me this is pretty disturbing. My question is, can anything be done about this..

additional info: Past threats are kind of like if i ever see him touch you i will brake his (my) hand... Like I said he has never directly threatened me but he is always telling her little things that he'd do to me.

That's a dad trying to protect his little girl. A bond you'll never know until you have a girl. I will be the same way when my little girl gets to that age. I'm already polishing my shotguns.

G.E. · 10-21-2009, 11:31 PM

yea she really believes he may do something... shes actually saying she won't get in the car so all of that doesn't happen.

songsj · 10-21-2009, 11:33 PM

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My daughter went on her first date last week...I threatened the boy etc...I let it be known dont mess with my daughter

I'm not sure how far you went but if you have to go overboard and threaten the guys your daughter brings home. Maybe she should wait a little longer to date. Like maybe 21.

tjbusa · 10-21-2009, 11:33 PM

sticks and stones may.....

just words, you really ought to talk to him if you really like this girl.

RMGee · 10-21-2009, 11:35 PM

wrong section?

AZ MSCL · 10-21-2009, 11:35 PM

I'm a retired AZ State Trooper. Until he threatens you directly, not much anybody can do about it. If you could get the local agency of responsibility to do anything, they MIGHT make an incident report or something, but that is unlikely. If your G/F wanted to file a report, they might take one from her and MAYBE talk to dad. Follow Steelheart's advice for a real answer.

coolman · 10-21-2009, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by G.E.

yea she really believes he may do something... shes actually saying she won't get in the car so all of that doesn't happen.

Why doesn't the old man like you? Maybe she just saying that so she doesn't have to go with you.

1320junkie · 10-21-2009, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by songsj

I'm not sure how far you went but if you have to go overboard and threaten the guys your daughter brings home. Maybe she should wait a little longer to date. Like maybe 21.

Homecoming dance and we have done well so far raising her and we are not going to compromise now. And nothing keeps a young man straight like knowing there is a dad who will not tolerate his daughter being messed with.

G.E. · 10-21-2009, 11:36 PM

i dont think this is just the fatherly type bond ya'll are talking about... this is like a psycho type thing... like he isn't all that lovely to his step kids either...

10-21-2009, 11:15 PM	#1
G.E. Drives: black on black twenty ten ss/rs Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 428 View My Garage	Attn Law enforcement and Lawyer ppl or ppl with knowledge of law. is this a threat Ok, this girl and I are good friends and went out for a while and her stepdad is a real douche. He is also the janitor at our school... Anyway he has always made little threats to her about me... but never directly to me. The most recent threat, I guess that is what this is called, is when she was telling him about my car. He said that if he ever caught her in it that he would smash the window, pull her out and then beat me... Now to me this is pretty disturbing. My question is, can anything be done about this.. additional info: Past threats are kind of like if i ever see him touch you i will brake his (my) hand... Like I said he has never directly threatened me but he is always telling her little things that he'd do to me.

10-21-2009, 11:33 PM	#9
tjbusa Serious Sleeper Drives: 2010 CGM 2SS/RS M6 Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lexington,SC Posts: 3,129	sticks and stones may..... just words, you really ought to talk to him if you really like this girl. __________________ ************************************* Drive-by Fact of Life: After Monday and Tuesday even the calendar reads... W T F *************************************

10-21-2009, 11:35 PM	#11
AZ MSCL Drives: 2009 Challenger RT, 2010 Mustang GT Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 719	I'm a retired AZ State Trooper. Until he threatens you directly, not much anybody can do about it. If you could get the local agency of responsibility to do anything, they MIGHT make an incident report or something, but that is unlikely. If your G/F wanted to file a report, they might take one from her and MAYBE talk to dad. Follow Steelheart's advice for a real answer. __________________ AZ MSCL: 2009 Challenger RT, 2010 Mustang GT Premium.

10-21-2009, 11:23 PM	#2
brooks35 Drives: 57Chevy TrailblazerSS 73Camaro Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 341	In Mi. there is nothing that will be done for verbal threats, unless there is a weapon involved, which gives the immediate means to carry out the threat. Such as being armed and stating "I'm gonna shoot you." I don't know about Texas. In Mi. you would be told to seek a personal protection order if you felt threatened, but then again I am a father also and hopefully you are not a valid reason for the threats that are happening.(Such as you being a piece of S**T) It's the old saying....two sides to every story.

10-21-2009, 11:23 PM	#3
Steelheart Drives: RJT 2010 SS1/RS Camaro-ordered Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Biloxi, MS Posts: 51	Probably should consult your local law enforcement on this

10-21-2009, 11:27 PM	#5
1320junkie Drives: The Imperial Army Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: The Darkside Posts: 15,742	My daughter went on her first date last week...I threatened the boy etc...I let it be known dont mess with my daughter

10-21-2009, 11:31 PM	#7
G.E. Drives: black on black twenty ten ss/rs Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 428 View My Garage	yea she really believes he may do something... shes actually saying she won't get in the car so all of that doesn't happen.

10-21-2009, 11:35 PM	#10
RMGee Clap Clap Drives: 2SS/RS LS3 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: NC Posts: 326	wrong section?

10-21-2009, 11:36 PM	#14
G.E. Drives: black on black twenty ten ss/rs Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 428 View My Garage	i dont think this is just the fatherly type bond ya'll are talking about... this is like a psycho type thing... like he isn't all that lovely to his step kids either...