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Joe in T.O. · 07-12-2009, 10:22 PM

You have done an admirable thing. As far as the car is concerned, why not get an older Camaro for now and then trade it in for the new Camaro shen you are ready? Some people have them advertised on this site too.

DntWrryBeHappy21 · 07-12-2009, 10:32 PM

Because you went through all that hell, when you get what you want its going to feel indescribably amazing...keep your head up there will be many camaros in the future

keep your eye on the prize man, never look back and keep working toward your goal.

len56 · 07-12-2009, 11:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kdoske

far as im concerned you dodged a bullet. Trust me, this girl is getting whats coming to her. Karma does exist and hers just got all kinds of hella sour.

I don't believe in spirtual stuff, but on FML karma works A LOT.

Really evens things out. Then again, most stories are fake, so of course it's apparent there. >.>

Anywho, sorry about that. I guess that's what happens when your nice? *sigh*

Hopefully you can get the money for this awesome car, and then get someone/something that WILL NOT cheat on you... (I've never heard of a car being unloyal

)

Jamie Mac · 07-13-2009, 12:06 AM

Noob. Not quite your situation but earlier this year I gave several thousand dollars to a recently divorced friend to help her keep her house until she could get back on her feet. While she was extremly grateful it caused her to feel weird about our friendship. I guess she felt like she owed me. She didnt it was a a gift that we were happy to give and were able to at the time. In the end it cost me a lot more than the money it cost me the best friend I've ever had. Very painful and I'll always miss her but still happy we were able to do it for her and her kids. You too have experienced something very costly in more ways than one. Perhaps you were put together by kharma because of your ability to help her. Be happy with yourself. She's healthy now in part due to you. Sadly I heard my ex best friend is now about to lose her house after all. If we could we'd help her again. It's ok to still love her. You can always cherish those times even as you move forward in life.

mike25 · 07-13-2009, 12:09 AM

youl find something one day. one thing i live by....everything happens for a reason.

jayzwife · 07-13-2009, 12:13 AM

You did an incredibly noble thing. Hold your head up high and know we appreciate guys like you. The right girl and the right car will happen for you.

coquinn8846 · 07-13-2009, 01:17 AM

It is so nice to know there are still people out there like you. You did a wonderful thing for her and I know your heart is broken right now but I promise everything happens for a reason. It is a great feeling having a new car but after a few months the car gets old, people stop telling you how nice it is then you have a high payment. But not many people can say they saved someones life. I would much rather have that feeling. You will get your car, probably the one that comes out in a couple of years that is totally perfected. Keep your head up and please remember not all wemon cheat. One day when you are married and have great kids you will think to yourself I am so glad things didn't end up any different. With that said one of the things that gets me through rough times is
I believe When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go, only 1 of 2 things will happen, either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly! God Bless and good luck.

DkknightX · 07-13-2009, 01:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FNKNSTN

The best revenge is becoming very successful in your life, and showing a girl how much better off you are without her.

Won't work if she doesn't know.

I agree completely though.

SleepWarz · 07-13-2009, 01:48 AM

Karma will make sure you, and she, get your just deserts.

That is my belief.

"prima"Donna · 07-13-2009, 06:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jamie Mac

Noob. Not quite your situation but earlier this year I gave several thousand dollars to a recently divorced friend to help her keep her house until she could get back on her feet. While she was extremly grateful it caused her to feel weird about our friendship. I guess she felt like she owed me. She didnt it was a a gift that we were happy to give and were able to at the time. In the end it cost me a lot more than the money it cost me the best friend I've ever had. Very painful and I'll always miss her but still happy we were able to do it for her and her kids. You too have experienced something very costly in more ways than one. Perhaps you were put together by kharma because of your ability to help her. Be happy with yourself. She's healthy now in part due to you. Sadly I heard my ex best friend is now about to lose her house after all. If we could we'd help her again. It's ok to still love her. You can always cherish those times even as you move forward in life.

God Bless You too, Jamie!!!...we all should "let our light shine", no matter what others choose to do, they shouldn't let us change the essence of who WE are...the world would certainly be a better place if everyone cared about everyone else the way you and Noob showed that you do...
I am the same way, and it can get you "hurt" sometimes, but I won't let it change who I am...I still always look for the best in everyone and refuse to believe the worst, until they prove otherwise..........
AND, I agree with what you told "Noob" too...

JUSTINASS · 07-13-2009, 06:57 PM

just don't do anything stupid like take her back...because she will be back...

KoTToN · 07-13-2009, 07:03 PM

wow, im sorry for your situation but you did a really great thing and if thats her true colors your very blessed in a weird way to no longer be with her. Imagine if you had married her and had a full family, then find out she was hooking up with a blading co-worker. Keep your head up , youll survive and come out on top.

camaro noob · 07-13-2009, 08:01 PM

"Keeping my head up" is becoming more and more of an impossible task. I'm not doing too well. I'm really seeing myself fall apart. I don't get how she could kiss me and look into my eyes and tell me that she loves me one moment only to turn around and hate me hours later. I broke my rule and tried to text her yesterday morning. It was short, all I said was that I missed her and hope that she was doing good. Last night she replied that she missed me too and was sorry that things ended as they did. I replied to that saying that I couldn't talk to her, I did still love her, I did forgive her, and that I hope her all the best in life. If it was possible, I wanted her to go see her councilor too just for one session because I was worried about her and wanted to make sure she was ok and safe. Me and her have the same councilor, and she has already told me that if the girl I love ever goes back, she will instruct her NOT to get back with me yet because I am still a mess. I wasn't saying it to be mean or to fufill any personal agenda, I just wanted to make sure she would be ok. I just don't feel it's right for a 19 year old to date a middle-aged man who is divorced with children. But she got offended when I suggested that. And now has made it clear that she does hate me. I don't know what to do. I wasn't trying to be mean or hurtful. I'm just so scared for her. And now I lost any chance of her ever wanting to see or talk to me again. Life is just so cold now. I'm losing the will to "keep my head up" and move ahead. I will never try to contact her again, and I fear that she will easily do the same. This is not painful for her. She is happy to move on. And that hurts so much. But if she is happy, that is all I can ask for. May God send nothing but blessings her way.

NAHURRY · 07-13-2009, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by "prima"Donna

I AGREE 100%...I believe in kharma and what you did was so pure and so noble that the goodness will be returned to you...maybe not right away, but please hang in there and use the love and support of your family and friends to hold you up while you heal from this heartbreak...:(
May God Bless You for your selfless act towards another human being and do not become bitter and cynical, but continue to "let your light shine"...
Get your college degree, keep your "eye on the prize" of owning your Camaro and you will buy it when the time is right for you to own it...

Be strong and do not lose faith in humanity, because of a selfish, immature act of someone that doesn't seem worthy of your love...
My son has been through a similar heartache and he is around your age, and out of that devastation, he has gained new friends and new situations that will probably be for the best for him in the long term...
I know this is a Camaro forum, but my heart just hurt for you and I wanted to let you know that this community of Camaro enthusiasts cares about each other and we are like "family", so I wanted to let you know that we are here for you...

This!!!^^^^

07-12-2009, 10:32 PM	#72
DntWrryBeHappy21 Patiently Waiting... Drives: whatevers in the driveway atm Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 403	Because you went through all that hell, when you get what you want its going to feel indescribably amazing...keep your head up there will be many camaros in the future keep your eye on the prize man, never look back and keep working toward your goal. __________________ One day....

07-13-2009, 12:06 AM	#74
Jamie Mac NCM-WINR Drives: 2010 SS/RS IOM 2014 2LT Stingray Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 2,324	Noob. Not quite your situation but earlier this year I gave several thousand dollars to a recently divorced friend to help her keep her house until she could get back on her feet. While she was extremly grateful it caused her to feel weird about our friendship. I guess she felt like she owed me. She didnt it was a a gift that we were happy to give and were able to at the time. In the end it cost me a lot more than the money it cost me the best friend I've ever had. Very painful and I'll always miss her but still happy we were able to do it for her and her kids. You too have experienced something very costly in more ways than one. Perhaps you were put together by kharma because of your ability to help her. Be happy with yourself. She's healthy now in part due to you. Sadly I heard my ex best friend is now about to lose her house after all. If we could we'd help her again. It's ok to still love her. You can always cherish those times even as you move forward in life. __________________ also drives a heavily modified Jeep Wrangler. It has LED headlights and wheel weights blacked out with Plasti Dip. It's Baller.

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07-12-2009, 10:22 PM	#71
Joe in T.O. Drives: 1970 GTO Ragtop Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Toronto Posts: 325	You have done an admirable thing. As far as the car is concerned, why not get an older Camaro for now and then trade it in for the new Camaro shen you are ready? Some people have them advertised on this site too.

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07-13-2009, 12:13 AM	#76
jayzwife Drives: 2010 VR SS/RS Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NorCal Posts: 94 View My Garage	You did an incredibly noble thing. Hold your head up high and know we appreciate guys like you. The right girl and the right car will happen for you.

07-13-2009, 01:17 AM	#77
coquinn8846 Drives: 2004 Mazda 6 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: virginia Posts: 142	It is so nice to know there are still people out there like you. You did a wonderful thing for her and I know your heart is broken right now but I promise everything happens for a reason. It is a great feeling having a new car but after a few months the car gets old, people stop telling you how nice it is then you have a high payment. But not many people can say they saved someones life. I would much rather have that feeling. You will get your car, probably the one that comes out in a couple of years that is totally perfected. Keep your head up and please remember not all wemon cheat. One day when you are married and have great kids you will think to yourself I am so glad things didn't end up any different. With that said one of the things that gets me through rough times is I believe When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go, only 1 of 2 things will happen, either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly! God Bless and good luck.

07-13-2009, 01:48 AM	#79
SleepWarz Banned Drives: 1991 New Yorker, 69 Tbird, ABM2SSRS Join Date: May 2009 Location: BC Canada Posts: 2,248 View My Garage	Karma will make sure you, and she, get your just deserts. That is my belief.

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07-13-2009, 08:01 PM	#83
camaro noob Drives: 2009 Honda Civic Join Date: May 2009 Location: Yuba City, CA Posts: 43	"Keeping my head up" is becoming more and more of an impossible task. I'm not doing too well. I'm really seeing myself fall apart. I don't get how she could kiss me and look into my eyes and tell me that she loves me one moment only to turn around and hate me hours later. I broke my rule and tried to text her yesterday morning. It was short, all I said was that I missed her and hope that she was doing good. Last night she replied that she missed me too and was sorry that things ended as they did. I replied to that saying that I couldn't talk to her, I did still love her, I did forgive her, and that I hope her all the best in life. If it was possible, I wanted her to go see her councilor too just for one session because I was worried about her and wanted to make sure she was ok and safe. Me and her have the same councilor, and she has already told me that if the girl I love ever goes back, she will instruct her NOT to get back with me yet because I am still a mess. I wasn't saying it to be mean or to fufill any personal agenda, I just wanted to make sure she would be ok. I just don't feel it's right for a 19 year old to date a middle-aged man who is divorced with children. But she got offended when I suggested that. And now has made it clear that she does hate me. I don't know what to do. I wasn't trying to be mean or hurtful. I'm just so scared for her. And now I lost any chance of her ever wanting to see or talk to me again. Life is just so cold now. I'm losing the will to "keep my head up" and move ahead. I will never try to contact her again, and I fear that she will easily do the same. This is not painful for her. She is happy to move on. And that hurts so much. But if she is happy, that is all I can ask for. May God send nothing but blessings her way.