I think this girl is playing head games with me? Or just don't really like me? - Camaro5 Chevy Camaro Forum / Camaro ZL1, SS and V6 Forums

bill2129 · 08-05-2011, 09:49 PM

Okay. I meant this girl about 1month ago. We talked alot and all that. So I asked her if she wants to hang out. ( Go out on a date ) She said yes. Well monday I picked her up. We went out to the mall then seen a movie and just walked around some stores. Well things went great. She seemed to really like me. She would hug me and just give me other little hints shes into me. We where a little early for the movie so we sat in my car for a little bit. Well we even started kissing in there. And she would do things like rest her head on my shoulder. ETC. Well The thing is when im not around her she seems to have no interest in me what so EVER. If we tex it just seems like she don't wanna talk at all. The other day she sends me a tex and says. ( I Just want you to know im not looking for a relationship) So I said okay That's fine. Well im just really confused. When im with her she does all this stuff a girlfriend would. Alot of the time I get a VERY strong vibe shes just not into me and all. In less Im with her in person. I even asked her. I said am I just wasting my time? She pretty much just said. stop it. That was about it.. Im really confused. For some reason I really like this girl and Idk why.. :(

PoorMansCamaro · 08-05-2011, 09:55 PM

My suggestion would be to do exactly as she said, stop it.

Glad I'm out of high school. Lol

Blue17CamaroZL1 · 08-05-2011, 09:57 PM

She was probably into you at first, but then just realized you weren't what she was looking for. My advice would be to just go about your daily activities as you normally would. If she's interested, then she'll show you.

Jay_LHD3 · 08-05-2011, 10:00 PM

Head games... shes got you right where she wants you.

Good luck!

Sarah · 08-05-2011, 10:00 PM

I almost want to say it sounds like theres another guy involved in this...
She doesn't want to get involved with another guy because she is hoping something else will happen with this other guy.... Just an input, i could be well off but i have seen it happen many times before to several guy friends. She could be one that just craves attention alone.

AZCamaroFan · 08-05-2011, 10:25 PM

how old is she?

edog · 08-05-2011, 10:33 PM

Drop her and focus on you studies...Mostly grammer and spelling...LOL! She seems like a distraction from what is most important!

Just saying...

The Stig · 08-05-2011, 10:35 PM

High school drama....

Serious note here for a minute though, she's playing mind games. If she wanted to date you then she'd be dating you. Simple as that. There could be a million reasons why she's acting the way she is, but honestly you'll probably never get to the bottom of it.

edog · 08-05-2011, 10:38 PM

Or, just get to the bottom and move on.

bill2129 · 08-05-2011, 11:01 PM

im 21 shes 18. Shes making the drama. not me lol

AZCamaroFan · 08-05-2011, 11:06 PM

well maybe she doesn't want to get serious, but she makes out with every date.

bob vogel · 08-05-2011, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bill2129

im 21 shes 18. Shes making the drama. not me lol

you have some work to do. yes ....you should just drop her and fast. good luck

FenwickHockey65 · 08-05-2011, 11:47 PM

Run. Just run.

When I was in high school I was really good friends with this girl. Pretty much the exact same story as yours, really sweet at first, and she actually was into me I later found out, but I was too dumb at the time to tell.

By the time I started liking her, she had already moved on. Still talked and stuff in school, but otherwise, she wanted nothing to do with me.

Now with you, it seems as though she hasn't moved on per se, she might just be using you. She doesn't really like you, she just wants you to think she does.

RocketCutlass · 08-05-2011, 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by edog

Drop her and focus on you studies...Mostly grammer and spelling...LOL! She seems like a distraction from what is most important!

Just saying...

LMFAO!!! Ok, so when your around this girl she acts all lovey dovey, when your not she act like she's not into you. And, she says she does not want a relationship... 3 possibilities. 1, she has a bf already and you are a side dish, 2, she is just crazy + retarded and playing games, 3, she just wants to ****.

08-05-2011, 09:49 PM	#1
bill2129 Account Suspended Drives: 2085 Trans AM COBRA Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chester County PA Posts: 676	I think this girl is playing head games with me? Or just don't really like me? Okay. I meant this girl about 1month ago. We talked alot and all that. So I asked her if she wants to hang out. ( Go out on a date ) She said yes. Well monday I picked her up. We went out to the mall then seen a movie and just walked around some stores. Well things went great. She seemed to really like me. She would hug me and just give me other little hints shes into me. We where a little early for the movie so we sat in my car for a little bit. Well we even started kissing in there. And she would do things like rest her head on my shoulder. ETC. Well The thing is when im not around her she seems to have no interest in me what so EVER. If we tex it just seems like she don't wanna talk at all. The other day she sends me a tex and says. ( I Just want you to know im not looking for a relationship) So I said okay That's fine. Well im just really confused. When im with her she does all this stuff a girlfriend would. Alot of the time I get a VERY strong vibe shes just not into me and all. In less Im with her in person. I even asked her. I said am I just wasting my time? She pretty much just said. stop it. That was about it.. Im really confused. For some reason I really like this girl and Idk why.. :(

08-05-2011, 09:55 PM	#2
PoorMansCamaro Drives: Really Slow Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: PA Posts: 56,957	My suggestion would be to do exactly as she said, stop it. Glad I'm out of high school. Lol __________________

08-05-2011, 09:57 PM	#3
Blue17CamaroZL1 650HP soon to come Drives: 2017 Chevy Camaro ZL1 Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Sayreville, New Jersey Posts: 2,882 View My Garage	She was probably into you at first, but then just realized you weren't what she was looking for. My advice would be to just go about your daily activities as you normally would. If she's interested, then she'll show you. __________________ 2017 Camaro ZL1 Hyper Blue Metallic A10, PDR, NAV, Premium floor mats

08-05-2011, 10:00 PM	#5
Sarah Drives: Camaro LLT ABM Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Cedar Park, Texas Posts: 686	I almost want to say it sounds like theres another guy involved in this... She doesn't want to get involved with another guy because she is hoping something else will happen with this other guy.... Just an input, i could be well off but i have seen it happen many times before to several guy friends. She could be one that just craves attention alone. __________________

08-05-2011, 10:25 PM	#6
AZCamaroFan Camaro6 2016-2018 Drives: sometimes Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Phoenix Posts: 18,450	how old is she? __________________

08-05-2011, 10:00 PM	#4
Jay_LHD3 Drives: 2019 F150 RCSB Abyss FX4 Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Huntsville, AL Posts: 2,277	Head games... shes got you right where she wants you. Good luck!

08-05-2011, 10:33 PM	#7
edog Drives: 2010 2SS/RS IOM Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: F'BURG VA Posts: 3,828 View My Garage	Drop her and focus on you studies...Mostly grammer and spelling...LOL! She seems like a distraction from what is most important! Just saying... __________________ Update...Build in process, Forged Rods, Pistons and rings, Johnson Lifters, NOVI1500 ECS SC, 13lb boost or more, LS3 Conversion 114/228/241 COMP CAM, Frostbite 4 row Aluminum radiator, 6L80 built, Circle D 6L80 PRO SERIES MULTI 258MM 2D, Stock 3.45 gears, 1-7/8 American Racing Headers w/HF cat, X-Pipe, Lingenfelter dual fuel pump, E-85 flex sensor, ATI super damper pulley, Ported TB, 160 therm, Trans cooler, Pedder's sways/end links/sub frame bushings, BMR trailing arms & toe rods, Coil overs. HP/TQ pending

08-05-2011, 10:35 PM	#8
The Stig knows 2 facts about ducks Drives: ...and they're both wrong Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: The HMS Invincible Posts: 25,072 View My Garage	High school drama.... Serious note here for a minute though, she's playing mind games. If she wanted to date you then she'd be dating you. Simple as that. There could be a million reasons why she's acting the way she is, but honestly you'll probably never get to the bottom of it. __________________

08-05-2011, 10:38 PM	#9
edog Drives: 2010 2SS/RS IOM Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: F'BURG VA Posts: 3,828 View My Garage	Or, just get to the bottom and move on. __________________ Update...Build in process, Forged Rods, Pistons and rings, Johnson Lifters, NOVI1500 ECS SC, 13lb boost or more, LS3 Conversion 114/228/241 COMP CAM, Frostbite 4 row Aluminum radiator, 6L80 built, Circle D 6L80 PRO SERIES MULTI 258MM 2D, Stock 3.45 gears, 1-7/8 American Racing Headers w/HF cat, X-Pipe, Lingenfelter dual fuel pump, E-85 flex sensor, ATI super damper pulley, Ported TB, 160 therm, Trans cooler, Pedder's sways/end links/sub frame bushings, BMR trailing arms & toe rods, Coil overs. HP/TQ pending

08-05-2011, 11:01 PM	#10
bill2129 Account Suspended Drives: 2085 Trans AM COBRA Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chester County PA Posts: 676	im 21 shes 18. Shes making the drama. not me lol

08-05-2011, 11:06 PM	#11
AZCamaroFan Camaro6 2016-2018 Drives: sometimes Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Phoenix Posts: 18,450	well maybe she doesn't want to get serious, but she makes out with every date. __________________

08-05-2011, 11:47 PM	#13
FenwickHockey65 General Motors Aficionado Drives: 2023 GMC Canyon, 2020 Colorado Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 37,371 View My Garage	Run. Just run. When I was in high school I was really good friends with this girl. Pretty much the exact same story as yours, really sweet at first, and she actually was into me I later found out, but I was too dumb at the time to tell. By the time I started liking her, she had already moved on. Still talked and stuff in school, but otherwise, she wanted nothing to do with me. Now with you, it seems as though she hasn't moved on per se, she might just be using you. She doesn't really like you, she just wants you to think she does. __________________ 2023 GMC Canyon Elevation 2020 Chevrolet Colorado W/T Extended Cab (State-issued)

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