Is it just me or is my gf cheating?

[Russo]

just curious, how long have yall been dating?

[Speedy One]

I'd say say La Vee Baby and start looking for another. Better yet do her best freind.

[NoUCantDriveIt]

I'm going to disagree with asking her about it. I always figured if someone was going to cheat then they would probably lie about it anyway. And, if you ask and she says No, are you going to believe her and let it drop... or keep wondering and drive yourself crazy about it?

Even if she isn't cheating, it sounds like you've dropped from the top of her "whats important" list. If you want to stay in the relationship, first take a good hard look at what and how much YOU are putting into it. Maybe instead of asking her if she's cheating, you should ask if there's something she needs from you that you don't realize is important to her.

[Russo]

Originally Posted by NoUCantDriveIt

I'm going to disagree with asking her about it. I always figured if someone was going to cheat then they would probably lie about it anyway. And, if you ask and she says No, are you going to believe her and let it drop... or keep wondering and drive yourself crazy about it?

Even if she isn't cheating, it sounds like you've dropped from the top of her "whats important" list. If you want to stay in the relationship, first take a good hard look at what and how much YOU are putting into it. Maybe instead of asking her if she's cheating, you should ask if there's something she needs from you that you don't realize is important to her.

this would only matter if there was something he's done to deserve the treatment he's getting... it's kind of a trick question because if he asks and he's done nothing wrong then the bitch knows she's got him back pedaling to get even MORE out of him... only he knows this... a hint of an answer is to ask several friends if you've been fair in the relationship (both men and women) to get a non biased pov... there's a point where a person gives and gives, yet there is no change in the relationship... this is what you call insanity... personally i think it's how a person is raised, to honor the other person regardless if a friend, brother, sister, mom, dad, uncle, bf,gf, etc... you have a base guidline of respect and honesty to those who you consider "allies"

[Nexus6]

just pull a suge knight / Vanilla ice scenario to get the truth

[FNKNSTN]

Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

So the past couple weeks my girlfriend has been going out and hanging out with her girlfriends. She stays out as late as 2:30 at night and stuff. She is always on the phone texting and etc. She checks my phone non-stop but i cant lay a finger on hers? She always tilts her phone away from me and turns the screen off after everything (i-phone) Last night we were sleeping and i woke up to the sound of her talking to "amanda" she was laughing and carrying on, at 3:00 in the morning no one talks to their best friends about nothing am i right? She always thinks im cheating or texting someone else also. I just need a few pointers on what you guys think.

Thanks, Logan

Regardless of whether she's cheating or not (probably is), it sounds like she's a complete BIOTCH. You don't need to put up with it. It's "Even Steven" or nothing.

Pump her and dump her.

[Iwantone2]

Buddy, all I'm gonna say is that you shouldn't have to live your life wondering if she is cheating on you. There's more to life than that. If she is acting that way around you, let her. You have the right....no! You have the OBLIGATION to do the same things to her as well.

Remember:

"Do unto others before they do unto you..."

[guod34]

ohhh this is easy......you have a camaro right? Who cares if she is cheating...dump her a**, take the camaro and get a even hotter chick !!!

[Banshee]

As a sign, projected guilt as in her checking your phone is a sure sign.

Bail.

[tones2SS]

All you have to do is, ask her where she's going the night she goes out with the "ladies" and just so happen to swing by with some of your friends to stop by and say hi, if you don't believe her!!
(Only fair is she can look at your phone and you can't look at hers!!) An ex-girlfriend tried doing that to me and I put an end to that right quick. Told her, if she looks at my phone again, I'm looking at hers and if she didn't like it, she's "outta here!!!" lol

[Sinergy]

Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

SSOOCH, Honest Man Thanks

Yeah, but she's cheating with SSOOCH.

[Banshee]

Originally Posted by Sinergy

Yeah, but she's cheating with SSOOCH.

If she's cheating with him she must have issues.

[7CAMARO7]

Originally Posted by Sinergy

Yeah, but she's cheating with SSOOCH.

lol, she's cheating. She's only looking at your phone to find a reason to break up with you. She does not want to break up with you and look like the bad girl. She's looking for something to use against you. She feels guilty about what she's doing(only a little bit) and is looking for a reason to break up with a nice guy.

If you have to ask if she's cheating, she probably is. You need to break up with her NOW. Next thing, if she has a friend who is not really her friend, and she's really hot, tell her to hang out with you and make sure to be seen by cheating ho lol. Tell her to make out with you infront of your cheating ho then smile at the cheating ho and leave.

Have you seen that movie 'Wanted'? Remember when angelina jolie kissed that dude infront of his cheating girl? That's what I'm talking about.

Tell her don't ever touch your fn phone again. She's definitely not worth keeping and I don't care how hot she is.

[Logan-69-Camaro]

we have been dating almost 2 yrs. Russo. i have low self confidence and i tend to suck up to make her happy, we still fight ALOT, im sorry about the cry baby post. idk what to do. she always says she is gone if we fight again, seems like she always says SHE IS LEAVING