03-17-2010, 12:42 AM | #57 |
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Kid, listen to us. I mean, if what you posted has really happened in your life then I'm sorry, but there are a lot of good people in the world, and we are here because we want to help you out. I know that you're confused, we've all been there. But if you have never had a girl, while all of us guys have, let us teach you something.
Questions: Do you go to hs or college? Are there any girls there? Any good looking girls? If it's a college, then does it have a nursing or business school? Are you one of those guys that likes to hang around people, a jock, or one of those people who doesn't like or want to hang out with people, a geek? Also, you don't need to be a jock or geek. What I'm asking is are you an introvert or an extrovert. Because this is the big thing, if you want a girl you need to start hanging out with them. On a scale of one to ten what is your confidence level? On a scale of one to ten what do girls think that you look like? Even if you have to create a pol and walk around campus asking them? And, if they look at you funny then say that it's for a philosophy course, or something. Are you one of those guys that when he goes up to a girl still gets that butterfly feeling in your belly? Or are you one of those guys that secretly wishes that he was a girl? What is the type of girl that interests you? Hair color? Skinny or fat, or in between? Ugly face but amazing body, ugly body but amazing face or just one word - hot? Are you looking for a girl that's a crazy party goer or would rather spend time at home reading a book? Are you looking for a girl that will last longer than a second, a minute, an hour, a day, a month, a year, two years? Are you looking for a girl that's a geek, a jock or neither? Remember, even girls that are geeks are actually amazingly beautiful, they just don't know it and are about 10 times as smart as an average girl. That's why a few of my gfs are geeks, extremely smart, very beautiful and if treated right are very easy going. Honestly, post some info about yourself, like the questions that I asked, we can take a deep look into it and tell you what you need to do to get that girl for you. You're still the one that will need to do the work though Last edited by 2000v6; 03-17-2010 at 12:54 AM. |
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03-17-2010, 08:45 AM | #60 |
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I say don't do it. She obviously is a hoe you could say. She leaves her kids at home to go get knocked up by your friend. Sounds like that's how she got her kids in the first place!
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03-17-2010, 10:27 AM | #61 |
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03-17-2010, 10:35 AM | #62 |
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Dude she's getting drunk - kissing chicks - banging your friends - AND she has kids. Seriously bro?? What are you wasting your time for - I don't care how hot she may be. If you're smart - you'll keep steppin.
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go for it, enjoy your life while your young, just do it
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03-17-2010, 10:50 AM | #65 |
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I say keep her around as a friend. If you don't know your way around ladies, you need to befriend a few to find out what they think of you, what you could be doing better, etc. If you guys happen to fool around once or twice as friends-hey, win for you.
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Might be a good idea to pass even if you like her. Your time together will be dictated by her responsibility as a parent and will be tough on a relationship...dosesn't sound like you're ready for that.
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Also keep this girl as you're friend, she sounds good to have a friendship with but not relationship quality. If anything before she can ever find a serious guy, she needs to grow up and she needs an older guy. But still...be friends with her, develop more friendships with girls who are single without kids. I repeat - SINGLE WITHOUT KIDS. It doesn't matter if they're butt ugly or not, you won't be developing relationships with them. The thing is you need to recognize is that when you go up to a girl she needs to see you as being confident. If you can develop more friendships with them, the whole butterfly thing will go away. Once this happens, come back and we'll talk some more. |
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03-17-2010, 12:13 PM | #68 |
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Seriously dude...it'd be like throwing a sausage down a hallway...
Don't pursue it past friendship...you can't be crazy over just one girl...you need to get out on the field and play the game!!! Talk to as many girls as possible and get some practice. It doesn't matter if you get "shot down", take it as a learning experience on what works and what doesn't work. Always walk up to a girl with a smile (and not a "the things I'd do to you if we were alone smile) and be genuine.
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